Money Vs. Love

Do you hope for true love or you don't believe in love, so you rather marry for the money?

It's often say that "Money makes the world go round."

Isn't it the same for love?

Yet, that 'butterflies in the stomach'-feeling doesn't last rite?

Money does.

Does it?

There's a woman who said, "I rather not sit at the back of a bicycle smiling (with the man she loves), because i rather sit inside a sports car crying."

What the hell is she talking about?

Money is power. Is that so?

I remembered my last relationship, i told my ex i rather we be poor than him going out cheating on me with his clients.

As much as i feel money is important, there's no point having more money to heal a broken heart.

It's just a vicious cycle.

But i think ZR think otherwise. He said his ex-es left because he's not rich.
I think that made him feel not good enough even for me, he'll say "Sorry dear, I'm not rich enough."
I think his ex-es are just materialistic.
That's a crazy statement. I told him, if i really want to be with a rich guy, i wouldn't stay with him till now.


He just graduated and started working only for a year.
He still have to return his study loans to his brother.

We wanna buy a house, we don't even have enough cash down payment.

In fact, we can't even afford a church buffet lunch for wedding.
Don't even mention house..

So he read a lot on shares and started investing in stocks.
One part of me don't want him to risk his savings, i tried discouraging him at first.

Yet, another part of me don't want to restrict him from doing what he really wanted.
What if he really can succeed and i hinder him?
*SIGH*
It's such a dilemma.

On the other hand, I still feel it's not about the money.

Imagine if you're with someone rich and he bought you diamonds.
But it's less than 3% of his income.

But if someone who doesn't earn as much and buys you something else but is 30% of his income.

Do we count the value of the effort or the value of that gift?

Oh well, unless you're lucky enough to meet a rich man who's willing to spend 30% of his income!

Then i hope ZR becomes that rich man. Hehe~! Ahhh.. that will be different.
But if he becomes a rich man, will he still be the same person?

Life is just so unpredictable.

Oh well.