Now that we're married, we can choose any time we want to have a kid.
ZR and I swing from thought to thought to have or not to have...
As much as I can't wait to have my own little cutie baby, I feel we are not ready financially.
Moreover, I know both our parents cannot help to take care of our baby due to age, and my mother's condition of anxiety and dry / sensitive hands that will never recover.
I will need to work. I will need to hire a maid.
We just got our house. We need to fill it with furniture.
I'm a HUGE worrier.. I worry and think about everything and anything.
I cannot have so many things to do and think about.
Morever, I just started work not long ago. Many things to learn.
Endless workshops to attend
AND SUPER WORK OVERLOAD.
:(
Plus, next year is SYF (Art) - I can imagine twice the workload :(
Money & Career - most documented reason for couples not to have kids.
it's so true.
Love doesn't give you money.
Money gives you chance to love.
Right start from dating.
But now, all i do when i walk around my school is imagine one day I'll be pregnant :)
Hope I can in time to come. For now, we'll just wait till we feel is right.
Either next year, or most likely the year after to start trying.
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