Monday, September 10, 2012

To try or not to try

Now that we're married, we can choose any time we want to have a kid.

ZR and I swing from thought to thought to have or not to have...

As much as I can't wait to have my own little cutie baby, I feel we are not ready financially.

Moreover, I know both our parents cannot help to take care of our baby due to age, and my mother's condition of anxiety and dry / sensitive hands that will never recover.

I will need to work. I will need to hire a maid.

We just got our house. We need to fill it with furniture.

I'm a HUGE worrier.. I worry and think about everything and anything.

I cannot have so many things to do and think about.

Morever, I just started work not long ago. Many things to learn.
 Endless workshops to attend
AND SUPER WORK OVERLOAD.
:(

Plus, next year is SYF (Art) - I can imagine twice the workload :(

Money & Career - most documented reason for couples not to have kids.

it's so true.

Love doesn't give you money.

Money gives you chance to love.

Right start from dating.

But now, all i do when i walk around my school is imagine one day I'll be pregnant :)

Hope I can in time to come. For now, we'll just wait till we feel is right.

Either next year, or most likely the year after to start trying.

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